I decide my destiny.

Decide is a heavier word than it sounds. Most of a life gets set by things nobody decided — the job you stayed in because leaving required a conversation, the subscription quietly renewing since 2019.

Destiny isn't chosen once, in a burst. It accumulates out of defaults you never went back to look at.

Pick one default today and look at it directly. Not necessarily to change it. Just to make it a decision again, instead of a habit that decided on your behalf.