I exude kindness and compassion.

People read this off very small evidence. How you speak to waiting staff. Whether you look up when somebody comes into the room. What your face does in the half-second before you answer a question you have been asked twice.

None of that is projected on purpose, which is why it cannot be performed for long. Anyone can manage a pleasant hour. What leaks out is the accumulated habit underneath, built from a thousand unwatched moments, and almost everybody reads it accurately inside ten minutes.