I accomplish everything I set my mind to.

Setting your mind to something is the rare event here. The accomplishing is comparatively mechanical.

Most of what people say they want has never been set — it's been mentioned. There's a real difference between wanting to learn the language and having a time on Thursday when you sit down and do it.

Audit one of yours; something you've said for over a year. Does it exist anywhere except in conversation? If not, that's the whole gap, and it's smaller than it feels. Put it on a day.