I am savoring the feeling of being loved and cherished by my spouse.

Savouring is a speed, not a feeling. It is how you eat the last bite of something good: slower, on purpose, knowing it is the last one.

Most affection gets consumed on the move. They say something kind while you are hunting for your keys and it has gone before it registers anywhere.

The cherishing is usually already there. The bottleneck is the rate at which you are taking it in.

Next time they say something good about you, don't answer straight away. Let the pause run slightly too long. You will feel exactly how much you normally skip.