I enjoy a life of happiness, health, and harmony.

Harmony is the interesting word. In music it is not everyone singing the same note — it is different notes that do not fight.

Households run on that. Two people wanting exactly the same things is rare and slightly airless. What holds up over decades is difference arranged well: one who plans, one who improvises, and a settled agreement about the thermostat.

The same is true internally. The part of you that wants ambition and the part that wants a quiet Sunday are not going to merge. They can be scheduled.

Harmony is not the absence of a second note. It is the second note put where it belongs.