I love myself and in turn attract love.

The mechanism isn't magnetic, it is more mundane than that: how you speak to yourself sets the terms other people learn to use.

Someone who mutters idiot after burning the dinner is quietly teaching the room how much carelessness with them is acceptable. Someone who lets it go is teaching something else.

This isn't a demand to feel wonderful about yourself first. Most people would be waiting a long time. It is smaller than that. Catch one sentence you would never say to a friend, and don't finish it.