You trust yourself, you will find the solution.

Trusting yourself is easy to confuse with already knowing. Most of the time the trust has to come first, in the gap, while you still have no idea what you're going to do.

Solutions have an annoying habit of arriving sideways: on a walk, in a shower, at the exact point you stopped forcing it. What produced them was usually days of unglamorous circling that felt like getting nowhere.

So the not-knowing isn't evidence against you. It's the stage that's happening now, and it's the stage that looks worst from the inside.