Happiness, health, and harmony are the life for me.

Nobody puts these three on a CV. There is no line for slept well, no award for a household where people are decent to each other on a Tuesday night.

So they get deprioritised for years at a stretch in favour of things that photograph better.

Ask anyone at sixty what they would protect and the list gets short very quickly. Sleep. People. A body that works. A home without a bad atmosphere in it.

The list does not change with age. Only the ranking does — and there is no rule saying you have to wait for the reranking.