I am proud of my journey and how far i’ve come.

The starting line keeps moving, which is why distance travelled is so hard to feel. Whatever you can do now becomes the floor, and a floor never looks like an achievement.

Someone I know spent her twenties unable to make a phone call to a stranger. She now runs a department and rings people all day without noticing. Ask her what she is proud of and she will mention a target she missed last quarter.

Pick one specific thing that used to be difficult and is now unremarkable. That gap is the whole story, and nobody else is going to point at it for you.