I can have everything I want in life.

Sequence is what makes this workable. The things you want conflict mainly when they are demanded in the same year: the travelling and the deep roots, the risky venture and the steady evenings. Spread across a life, most of it is compatible. Plenty do the wild decade and then the settled one, and the order is negotiable even when the simultaneity isn't.

So the practical question isn't whether you can have it. It is what this particular stretch is for, and what is being postponed rather than surrendered. Those two feel identical in the moment and are entirely different things.