I only attract healthy relationships in my life.

Healthy relationships are conspicuously undramatic. Plans happen on the day they were made. Disagreements are about the actual thing. Nobody has to be decoded on a Sunday night.

Anyone who has spent time in the other kind knows how flat that can feel at first, and how thoroughly a nervous system learns to read intensity as significance. What arrives matters less than what you stay for and how early you notice. It's a recalibration: learning to find steadiness interesting rather than suspicious.