Trusting and waiting are different postures, and they are easy to confuse. One is calm. The other is passive.
Whatever you believe is arranging things tends to work through ordinary channels: the dinner you didn't feel like attending, the friend's wedding where you were seated badly, the evening class you nearly cancelled on the way there.
That is the odd deal on offer. Relax about the timing, but keep saying yes to the rooms. Hardly anyone meets anyone while at home protecting an evening.
There is one invitation in your week you are planning to decline out of tiredness. That is the one.