Support rarely announces itself as support. Someone mentioned your name in a meeting you were not in. A train was late and you missed a thing you should not have gone to. A door closed that you had been leaning against hard.
You do not get told about most of it. The interventions that shaped your life happened offstage, in conversations you will never hear.
Whatever you call the thing arranging that, it has acted in your favor more times than the record shows. Some of your best outcomes are things you never learned to be grateful for, because you never learned they happened.