I attract peaceful and relaxed people in my life.

Some people leave you steadier than they found you. It is almost physical — a friend arrives, and within ten minutes your shoulders have come down an inch without any conversation about it.

Others do the reverse, and most of us have one of those still on the list, kept out of habit rather than choice.

Attraction here runs both ways. Calm tends to congregate around calm, so the surest route to more of it is becoming someone whose company lowers a room's temperature.

Notice who you leave feeling lighter after seeing this week. Then see them again sooner than usual.